Advent denotes “coming” in Latin. For Christians, it marks the coming of Jesus into the world. Christmas is celebrated in many different ways, but if there is one thing that is universal, it’s the display of lights. Light is the overarching symbol of this celebrated event. 

The story of Jesus’ birth began with a star in the east. Later, Jesus declared that he was the “light of the world” — John 8:12. Light permeates Jesus’ advent and is one of the themes of his ministry. But even given this theme, Christmas can be an unhappy time for some. Or, there can be a let-down as soon as it is over. Either way, it limits Christmas to a one-day event. 

I believe that there is a way to think about this season that doesn’t lead to the highs and corresponding lows that often accompany the Christmas holiday.

The story of Jesus and the celebration of his birth resonates with us because it resides in our hearts. It is a story that we feel deep inside and not something that we simply know intellectually. It is the Christ spirit that lives in each and every one of us. Jesus described this living presence or light as the “Comforter” which would abide with us forever, even after his physical presence had departed this earthly home — John 14:16. Jesus reflected this light perfectly and showed by example how we should live our lives so that this light can continue to shine in the world. 

So, this celebration of light is really not limited to a particular day. As Paul reminds us, “we have the mind of Christ” — 1 Cor. 2:16. 

This applies to each and every human being. But we know that simply having something by itself is never enough. We each, every day, need to search our hearts for the expression of this mind to the best of our ability. Jesus taught that the “kingdom of God is within us” — Matthew 17:21. That is where this mind or light dwells. For some, it bubbles to the surface, being almost effortlessly expressed. 

For others, it is buried deep within and takes greater effort. Whatever our individual circumstances, we are happiest and most fulfilled when we express this kingdom as Jesus did, for it is our true nature. 

May each and every day be a celebration and a discovery of your individual and unique light in the world. 

That, for me, is the true meaning of Christmas. May yours be filled with light. 

— Reflections appears regularly on the religion page. The column features a variety of local writers, coordinated through the Monroe Area Clergy Group. Charles Wellington is a member of the First Church of Christ, Scientist, Boston, Massachusetts, and regularly meditates with the Great Plains Zen Center in Monroe.